Feelings

I am unsure if I have been handling this cancer thing right.  With everyone saying how positive I am and that I seem to doing well.

Then I watch a couple of interviews with sports MEN who said that when they were diagnosed with their cancer that they did not remember the journey home or sat in the car at the hospital and cried.  I did neither is there something wrong with me?

I must admit that I am just getting on with it and will probably forget about what happened when I get to the other end or at least the bad stuff and remember the laughs along the way.  I have always been a positive person, well we do have our off days, but in the main I try to see the positive side of life.
I have discussed this with friends and they say that it is just that the examples I have shown are MEN and not women who seem to be stronger and cope with pain and these sorts of things in different ways.
Any way I am staying positive and will just get on with it.